Monday, February 18, 2013

February in Madrid and Venice

First the 'cat news'. It was a sad start to the year to learn that our boy Rachi (GP Havacats Rachmaninov of ComposerCat) had cancer. It was very agressive and we had very little time after the daignosis. We shared a heartbreaking two weeks with him before he went to the Rainbow Bridge to be with Leo. It was a sad start to our new year. We had a great visit from our friend Dr. Laurie who spent a couple of weeks with us and even joined me on a trip to Stockholm for a cat show - where our newest little star became a Grand Champion. This accomplished earned her mama the title of Distinguished Merit. We were all very proud to come home with our new 'baby Grand'. We followed that up with weekend in Florence for some leather shopping - something my budget could have done without! I think Laurie went home with quite a nice new jacket wardrobe and I didn't do too bad myself. Feb - Started the month out with a trip to Madrid for a cat show. We didn't get a chance to do much sightseeing this trip. It was cold and windy so we stayed close to the hotel. We did find a great place for Tapas and a fabulous bottle of wine! What more could you ask for? This winter has been especially cold with two snows in December and another last week that accumulated 4-5 inches. It isn't a New York winter, but it is more that I want in Italy. I'm ready for spring! Next weekend I'm hoping for sunshine so I can start cleaning up my yard in preparation for spring flowers. I decided that I'm not planting vegitables this year. The produce is so good here and so very cheap, I'll just rely on the local farmers to keep me in vegies. Of course, I'll still have to have my herbs but they are very low maintenance. The lemon tree on my terrace has several ripe lemons on it right now. I can't bring myself to pick them because I enjoy the splash of color. I guess I'm just not much of a gardener... maybe I should stick to flowers! Yesterday was a nice sunny (but cold) day and we made it a day trip to Venice. I've been wanting to do the insiders tour of the Doge's Palace since I arrived and we finally got around to it. In the morning we toured the Palace, prison and crossed the Bridge of Sighs and then we had a nice lunch at a local Bistro before heading over to the Academia gallery for an afternoon of art overload. It was a nice relaxing day and we enjoyed spending it with our friend Alicia. She and Bill provide running commentary on pretty much everything so I'm never short laughs! I don't have many photos to share since the tour and the gallery both prohibit photos :-( Next weekend is the last in February. I'm hoping to make another day trip somewhere but haven't decided on a destination yet. Any suggestions?

Friday, December 28, 2012

New Years Resolution

I realize we have not been keeping up with our blogging this past year and I'm making a resolution to get back on the blog bandwagon! So, stay tuned for updates on our European experiences. I'll also do my best to do a 2012 year in review over the weekend to tell you about all the adventures we've had. Upcoming 2013 plans... Bill has a New Years ski trip coming up- he can fill you in on the details of that one. He's determined not to be 'bunny slope Bill' again this year :-) I will be going to Sweden in January with some girlfriends. Plans to visit the Vasa, see Stockholm and hopefully see some northern lights. A cat show is also on the agenda (imagine that). Second Cat Show of the new year will be in Klagenfurt, Austria - one of my favorite places. We will have a nice little crew and plan to make it a party. I think Austria is one of my favorite countries. It is beautiful, clean, the food is good, it isn't God awful expensive and the people are wonderful. I always look forward to this trip. We are planning trips back to the states this year, althought it is looking like a big part of it may not be together! Personally, I'm not excited at the possiblity of a camping trip with the guys and I don't think he has his heart set on weddings or visiting the CFA Annual conference. However, we are BOTH excited about seeing our new nephew Alex, born on Christmas day! So, we hope to see many of our friends and family this year but the group hug may have to wait. If we can both manage to get away in the fall, we'd love to see the colors change from the cabin in Maine and check out all the updates to the camp. If we get there, I promise to share photos. Ciao for now. LeAnn

Saturday, April 9, 2011

l'estate e` gia` qui

Any way you say it, it's gotten warm in a hurry here in Il Veneto and yes, The Summer Is Already Here. What makes it tougher though, is that plants and trees are still blooming, so not only do we have premature heat but also lots of pollen. Ugh. I'd love to have a nice strong rainstorm to wash it all away! I've been feeling like crap today, and have slept a lot - although I can't tell at this point whether my having needed to sleep today is due to a requirement to catch up on the sleep I missed during the week, or my problems with the pollen. Not to cop out, but I suspect it's probably a little of both. And I don't know if our having lived previously in the lower Hudson Valley (which is notorious for seasonal allergy issues) is mitigating the effects of the pollen here - it probably depends on what plants are there vs. here.

So, that's it for today! I hope la primavera is not gone completely - I'm not yet ready to move on to summer! But I've got something up my sleeve that'll make me feel more springlike - I still haven't watched the entire Ronde von Vlaanderen bicycle race!

I suppose if that doesn't make me feel like it's spring, there's always marshmallow Peeps...

Monday, March 21, 2011

Milano-San Remo: Bill goes to the Poggio!

"Man, I should be there by now!" I fumed to myself inside my motorcycle helmet. Somewhere north of Genova on the A26, I hustled my gold Harley through the valley, curve after curve, tunnel after tunnel, weary from the engine vibrations and wind blast, as the sun sank over the tops of the hills all around me. My plan had been to arrive at my hotel in Vado Ligure around 4 pm, which would allow me to find the hotel in daylight and to stroll around a bit before night came; However, I had left later than I'd intended, made a few wrong turns, stopped more frequently than Google Maps assumed I would, and overall the plan had turned to crap. As I exited the Autostrada, I thought I was close - and I would have been, but I made another wrong turn, and was now headed away from Savona to the north again. The longest 9km are the ones covered in the cold, in the opposite direction, knowing you have to cover another 9km back the other way just to get to where you are now. Allora...

Welcome to my not-yet-perfected method of seeing bicycle races in Italy. Oh, after my initial good fortune traveling by car to Gorizia for the finish of the Giro del Friuli where I was able to 1) park close and 2) find a cozy bar for lunch and caffe' and 3) see the race action, I had subsequently screwed the pooch most completely in doing a day-trip on the motorcycle to Toscana (Tuscany) to see the Montepaschi Strade Bianche peloton pass through Buonconvento. That time, I arrived way too late to see anything in the sleepy little town (The line of team cars headed in the other direction should have been a clue I suppose) and so I could do nothing more than have a panino and caffe', warm up my tired body a little, and gear back up and slog through rain and snow for a cold, miserable two-wheeled torture-test back to Mestrino. It wasn't until the next day when I watched the TV coverage of that race that I appreciated what I'd done - I said to LeAnn, "Hey, look how beautiful that was! I saw that, you know! Well, not the racers, but the countryside-! It really was pretty, and the roads were wonderful!" (Funny how that is - A ride that was simply horrid can become, less than twenty-four hours later, an accomplishment to be proud of and no longer a complete waste of time. Your Badge of Stupidity becomes a Badge of Honor. You realize that you were still able to travel to Tuscany for lunch, and that's got to be pretty cool, regardless of the logistical challenges, right? Lunch in Toscana, with a side of Character-Building!)
Anyway, with those races as backdrop, I had decided (at LeAnn's suggestion) to get a hotel room the night before Milano-San Remo, so that I would wake much closer to where I wanted to be to see the race action, arriving at my selected viewing spot on-time and better-rested. So! After correcting my latest navigational mistake and arriving in the proper town, a quick phone call to the hotel staff zeroed me in on my destination. And it was a good thing, too, since the Sea Art Hotel doesn't have a sign out front indicating the building's name or function! Fortunately I recognized the structure from the photo on the website, so I knew it wasn't an office building, apartments, or condo's.
Checked-in and showered and dressed, I walked out to scope out the recommended eateries, and selected a quaint little family joint called Luca's, which served Brazilian steakhouse fare as well as local Italian dishes. Dinner was fantastic, after my piatto primo of spaghetti carbonara (basically a breakfast of eggs and nicely salty ham with spaghetti) I had truly memorable piatto secondo consisting of Orata done Ligurian style. The Orata (Gilt head Bream, I later found out) arrived whole, baked in aluminum foil in butter, olive oil, capers, garlic, halved cherry tomatoes, tart black olives (more tart than Kalamata), and with a sprig of rosemary inside its mouth. Due to my allergy to pine-nuts, those were left out, but still - What a dish! I love eating in Italy, if you pick a local place, it's family-run and their friends come in to eat and to visit and hang out. The vibe is so very comforting! The woman who waited on me had her 7 or 8 year old daughter there along with Nonna who worked in the kitchen, and while I ate, Nonna set up the little girl with a plate of something that looked like gelato, only it was flat like a chicken cutlet, with what appeared to be a diagonal latticework of chocolate syrup on it. The girl would eat a bite or two, then get up from her kitchenside table and stamp around the restaurant in her boots, come back for more food, repeat. She finished by swirling the leftover gelato and chocolate syrup around in her plate with her teaspoon, turning from diner to artist as kids love to do. She seemed very happy doing what she was doing - I suppose there's something to be said for being able to put on your comfy boots and wander around here and there and see what you want to see - whether it's a restaurant, or Northern Italy chasing after a famed bicycle race.
Saturday morning came and it was time to get my stuff together - literally and figuratively - and find the famed Poggio climb. I had already looked at a route map of the race, as well as reading up on how this particular race usually developed, and all signs pointed to the climb of the Poggio di San Remo being THE place to be. Never having been there before, I wasn't sure how the logistics would work out. All I knew was that I wanted to get there, find a place to park the motorcycle, have a nice lunch, stay for the race, and overall to soak in the experience to the fullest extent possible.
Before I checked out of the hotel, I decided to walk next door to the small grocery store and pickup 2 or 3 water bottles for the trip. I found exactly what I wanted - three small water bottles - and proceeded to the cashier. The cashier pointed out to me that purchasing a six-pack of bottles was more economical than purchasing three singles. "But I'm on a motorcycle", I explained. She responded by putting my three single bottles back on the shelf, and taking down the six-pack instead, as she gave me the "Mama knows best" nod and wink that said, "Here, you want these". I figured I'd make it work somehow.
My next errand was to find somewhere to purchase additional minutes for my pay-as-you-go cell phone, as I was very low. I checked out of the hotel, packed up the bike (Yes, I fit all the water bottles on the bike -"Mama" was right after all!) and set out for a nearby electronics store that I was pretty sure would be able to help me. Well... they couldn't. My carrier (Wind) was the one major cell phone carrier they didn't carry, so I was stymied. As I walked out of the store, a gentleman was admiring my bike, and he complimented me on it. I thanked him, and we chatted a bit (at this point in my Italian language development, my chatting is pretty cumbersome), soon switching to English. We talked motorcycles for a bit (The gentleman used to work for Triumph in England as it turned out) and for a time I forgot that I was on a schedule. Well, I had intended to have a wander up the coast all the way to Poggio, but I had already decided that I'd adjust my use of the Autostrada based on how long it took me to get on my way. We ended our conversation when it made sense to do so, not based on any external schedule but rather based on our internal clocks - the best way to live, I think - and in parting he recommended that I ride westward along the coast for about 15 km then go to the Autostrada - stating that that particular area of the coast from Vado Ligure reminded him very much of the Amalfi coast and that I would enjoy the ride. Well, I did, and I did! All along the route, bicyclists were out in force riding in the direction of San Remo, either because it was a beautiful day, or they wanted to see the race, or both. I rode through several little seaside towns, then followed the green signs to the Autostrada to make some time. By this time the weather was warming up nicely, and it was a quickly becoming a fantastic day to be on two wheels. In keeping with my tradition of missing turns, I blew past the "San Remo est" exit, slowing down to consider it briefly but deciding against it at the last minute. As soon as I entered a tunnel named "Poggio" I knew I had messed up again, so I pressed on to San Remo ovest, exited the Autostrada, U-turned and immediately got back on. I must say, the road signs once I exited at San Remo est were not the clearest, and at one point after trying to follow a sign that said "Poggio" I was headed for somewhere far beneath the elevated Autostrada through what looked like a construction site! Fortunately I realized that I needed to head toward the water instead, which I did, and found myself on SS1 headed toward San Remo, which is what I needed to do. Soon I came to a sign indicating the upcoming right-turn would take me to Poggio di San Remo, and I knew I was close! Then up ahead I recognized a sight that I had seen in past Milano-San Remo footage - the little step to the right in between the signature stone walls that marked the road to Poggio di San Remo.

It was just past midday on the Poggio, and there was a steady stream of bicyclists grinding their way up the Poggio. The road is narrow, about one-and-a-half european car widths across. I carefully chugged up the road on the Harley, feathering the clutch in each of the very-tight switchbacks. There were bedsheet-signs and road-paintings of encouragement for favorite riders, as well as the familiar continuous advertising banners at street level (that a crew was still assembling, higher up on the climb). I managed to steal a quick scenic glance here and there. At one point some cars were stopped in a line, but since I wasn't a car, I was able to thread my way past them and have the climb to myself with the cyclists. It was an incredible thrill to BE HERE! I imagined the circus of activity that was to arrive in a few hours as I rode up the Poggio, thinking of what it must be like to ride in the peloton through such a setting. It was like being in a famous cathedral and feeling the incredible weight of the history of the place.

Eventually I reached what appeared to be a plateau of sorts, even though it wasn't the end of the climb. On my left was a red pork-sandwich catering van fronting a small line of campers along a side road leading to a church. To my right was a small attractive-looking restaurant with a generously-sized outdoor patio and a menu board out front. I quickly decided that this was the place! I parked the motorcycle across the street and looked at the menu board. They had a special "Milano-San Remo" prezzo fisso race day menu! I spoke to one of the staff, and stated that I wanted to lunch here, and to stay for the race, and where would he recommend I park my motorcycle? He thought for a moment, then said, "this way". I followed him outside into the courtyard and he pointed out a spot next to a tree, just inside the access gate. "would this be ok?" he asked me. Holy cow! "Yes, that's fine, thank you very much!" I said. He went to get the key to open the gate, and I restrained myself from running full-speed out the front door hooting and hollering "OHBOYOHBOYOHBOY!" in my excitement, choosing instead to stroll out at a normal pace to get the bike. We accomplished the parking task, I stashed some of my gear on the bike (cover-pants, spine protector, helmet, gloves) and walked back in to have lunch. They actually had two menu's - a meat menu and a fish menu. For the record, I chose the meat menu, Clenbuterol-be-damned, as I was not expecting any out-of-competition controls to occur anytime soon. Plus, I'd had fish the night before, and I thought the meat would be better energy for my long motorcycle ride home. As I sat at my table inside the restaurant looking out the window at the bicyclists streaming by and the beautiful scenery and the sea below, I realized I was having another one of those "pinch me / so beautiful I could cry" moments that I have been experiencing now and then, ever since I came to Italy. I was sitting in a cozy restaurant on the Poggio climb, having a fantastic lunch (home-made everything!), on the day of Milano-San Remo!
I had arrived at my table at approximately 1230. About an hour later at 1330 the police began congregating outside, followed later on by a truck carrying the ubiquitous metal crowd barriers, which were unloaded and put into place. By about 1430 the scene outside was pretty much locked down. In the restaurant, the lunch crowd - whose collective conversing had earlier raised the noise level to something resembling a beehive - started leaving, creating a small lull in the activity until more cycling fans came in, in anticipation of the action to come. Even so, I don't think the restaurant was ever at more than 2/3 capacity. During the entire time, however, there were many, many cyclists climbing the Poggio, some looked to be affiliated with tour groups, others just out on their own, but pretty much right up until the road was closed, there were cyclists. It was amazing to see, and to appreciate.

After my leisurely lunch, I wandered outside into the courtyard to admire the view and to observe the gathering crowd and the gradually-increasing activity level along the route. One nice feature was that from my vantage point, I and the rest of the crowd could see a portion of the seaside road below, so we would be able to tell when the peloton would be arriving. Inside the restaurant, the old-style 25" TV was tuned to one of the RAI channels, at first it had news on, but every so often there were some race updates, when the conversation inside toned down and we all paid close attention to what was going on. Apparently there had been some rain along the route, and there were a good number of crashers, one of those "clog up the road and delay the peloton" type situations. Still, the race coverage was not continuous, so we'd watch what was on, then some of us would wander back outside. I did just that, finally staying outside watching the road below and a plane that was lazily circling the area. Finally around 1615 we started seeing cars and motorcycles on the road below. then more motorcycles. then more cars. We all were getting anxious, thinking and saying among ourselves, "when will see BIKES?" Finally about 1625 we saw what appeared to be 4 or 5 breakaway riders, followed closely by a group that at first looked to be the peloton, but turned out to be a chasing group. Not long after we saw the riders way down there on the road, the leading Race Marshal's car came through, along with the police on their BMW R-bikes, with photo bikes and official's bikes. We also heard gradually increasing cheering and yelling working its way up the mountain, until we saw the riders turning one of the last corners just down from our location. The drone of the low-flying photo helicopter grew louder until it was right THERE! above us. Then, finally, to complete the circus-has-come-to-town effect, here were the riders! What I scene! At this point the BMC rider (van Avermaet) was still out on his own, being pursued by the two FdJ riders and a LAY-o-Pard rider (legendary hardman Stuart O'Grady). Then here came the chasing group! What a scene! I stood on a concrete planter behind the restaurant's fence and waved my black Sidi baseball cap in the air and yelled but for some reason my voice was already hoarse, so I sounded like a 13-year-old whose voice hadn't yet changed. Ugh. Anyway, it was crazy, did I say that already?!? And after about a minute or two, here came the main peloton! They didn't look happy. And after that, it was pretty much over. Elapsed time of the circus arriving and departing was less than ten minutes. all told.
At this point, all of us out in the courtyard dashed inside! It was time to watch the rest of the race on the TV!!!
I went inside to find a group of about 25 or so with their eyes glued to the TV. Every time a rider made a move, there were cheers and shouts. "It's Pozzato!" "Pippo, Pippo, Forza Pippo!!" Then it might be Gilbert! "Jeel-Bear! Jeel-Bear!" Then Nibali again! (I later found he had first attacked out of the chase group immediately outside our restaurant!) "Nibali! Nibali! NEEEBA-LEEE!" Then "Cancellara!!!" Finally it came down to the final sprint, and...
and...
AND...
who is that? Chi e'? Murmurs throughout the crowd inside the restaurant. "Akka Tee Chi? Goss-eh?" Matthew Harley Goss had won, and no one knew who the hell he was! All the previously-palpable excitement in the room simply evaporated.
The tifosi dutifully gathered their jackets. Some walked to the bar for un altra caffe' for the road. The restaurant staff cleared tables and stacked up the chairs. A few folks stayed to watch the interviews and podium ceremony on TV, but for many there that day, it was an extremely anticlimactic finish. It was singularly strange to see.
Outside, the sky toward Genoa had turned very dark and a chill wind was starting to pick up. I thanked the restaurant folks again profusely for making my day so perfect. I had envisioned my day being EXACTLY like this! (Well, except for the rain to ride home in, I would have definitely ordered sunshine.) I suited up for my return ride, and took my place in the now-thinning line of traffic headed back down the Poggio climb.
I rode home through very strong winds, varying rain, lightning strikes (some dangerously close!), finally making it home around half-past midnight. A soak in a hot bath and a very late dinner (Wife is awesome!) capped the evening. The next night (Sunday) I watched the coverage that LeAnn had recorded for me, and was elated to see, just before Nibali attacked in front of the Mirador restaurant, an arm waving back and forth what looked like a black panty in the air. Hey, that's my hat! "Hey, Honey! My hat made it on TV-!!!"
In the bedroom, LeAnn was sleeping like crazy, pinned down by two Havana Brown cats. I would have woken her up, but she doesn't understand this bike-racing thing. I mean, both her bikes have baskets! I thought briefly of possibly invoking the "in sickness and in health" clause of our marriage vows (since riding for 10 hours on a Dyna Glide just to see 10 minutes of bicycle racing might be considered by some a sign of illness), but I remembered that she DID run me a bath the night before... Anyway, I'm now over the initial thrill of seeing my disembodied baseball cap on TV.
The thrill of my Milano-San Remo day out, though, will stay with me for a long time.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

I want to tell you a story of something that happened last night but I must start the story a week ago when I was at the Cat Fanciers Show in Belgium.
I attended the Breed Awareness/Judging School on Thursday and Friday and stayed in the hotel where it was held. During this time, there was a lot going on in capital of Egypt and I became interested in the news about the protests against the Egyptian President and the youth revolution (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J56oGIznUOQ). I have to tell you that civil unrest and global politics really aren't high on my list of things to keep up with. I read the headlines but rarely follow a story in depth unless I have some personal connection to the location or event. However, this particular story captured my interest. I kept CNN running for three days straight and checked in on the news at each break and over our lunch breaks to see what was happening in Cairo. I watched the protesters get killed in the streets, heard the President’s speech when he agreed to transfer some power to the military and then finally saw the announcement when the President decided to step down and left Egypt. Why this particular story captured my interest I don't know, but I followed it as if it were happening in my hometown.
Flash forward to yesterday. We left our car at the Venice airport parking lot and took the water bus (ferry) to San Marco. We decided to skip the train ride and spend the 50 euro on the round trip boat ride because it was such a nice day. Bill and I had a good time hanging out in Venice, exploring San Georgio and doing a bit of shopping. We had a very nice dinner and walked all around the city, even into the designer boutique areas where we discussed the latest fashions displayed in their windows. We wandered off the beaten path and watched gondolas drift by as we crossed many of the famous Venice bridges. When it came time to head back to the square to catch the late bus back to the airport, we decided to make one last stop for a cup of coffee at one of the famous old coffee houses in St. Mark’s square. It was the perfect way to end a memorable day in Venice.
We eventually arrived at the pier to catch the water bus but were a bit confused as to which pier was for arrivals and which for departures. We went to the one we thought was departures but became concerned when the boat that we thought was the one we were supposed to be on, motored past the pier without stopping. It was the right time and there was a different boat at the other pier so we hurried to the other side to ask them if we were supposed to catch that boat. When we got there we found someone else having the same conversation with the answer being, no, the last boat has already departed (yep, that was the one that didn’t stop) and this one had reached the end of the line. No more boats to the airport tonight.
The other person who was asking for transportation back to the airport was a woman of obvious middle eastern decent, dressed in traditional Muslim clothing and a hijab (scarf) covering her head. She spoke fluent English and was in obvious distress at being stranded on an island where all the hotels were full (Carnival starts this week) and she had no place to stay. She was trying to get guidance from the guys who ran the boat as to what she should do. Unfortunately they didn't speak English that well and weren't very inclined to help. This was obviously a very strong woman who would go against her culture and be traveling alone in a strange city but she had used up her reserves and the tears were beginning to flow.
We asked if we could help and she explained that she had arrived at Venice airport at about 5pm and took the boat to the island expecting to be able to find a hotel where she could spend the night. She had only one day to visit and wanted to see the city at night and then take some photos in the morning before flying out. She did not know about Carnival and expected that, in the middle of winter, a hotel room would be easy to find. When she was told that all the rooms in the city were sold out, she offered a hotel the price of a room to be allowed to stay in the lobby where she would be safe and off the streets during the night. The hotels turned her away so she went to catch the water bus back to the airport, planning to spend the night in the airport terminal where she wouldn't worry about being mugged or raped. This is where our paths crossed.
A water taxi from the island to the airport at this time of night (11pm) can cost a fortune. The taxi's know you have no alternative. We had already been told that the water taxi would be 100 Euro (about $135) and knew it would be no more to have another person join us for the trip. We explained that we had to take the taxi back to the airport to get our car so we could drive home and invited her to join us. You could tell she wasn't comfortable getting on a boat with two people she didn't know and had no guarantees where we would be taking her but she had few options so she consented to come along. She offered to pay her share but was very shocked at the price.
Once on the boat, we introduced ourselves (something we had failed to do previously) and explained that we could help her find a hotel nearby but not on the island. She really wasn’t comfortable leaving the area since she didn’t know her way around and she didn’t want to be away from the airport for fear that she would be able to get back. She was upset with herself for not making better plans and assuming that she would be able to find a hotel without a reservation.
We found out that she was from Egypt. She left the country about 10 days ago right after the President stepped down and turned power over to the army. She had spent the days previous to her departure in Tahrir Square with the protesters. She had been attacked with tear gas but continued to march with the youth of Egypt demanding freedom and democracy. This was a woman who was not afraid to stand up to her government, march against the police and be counted as an Egyptian youth who wanted a better life - however she had just been terrified at the prospect at being left alone in a city that could not offer her shelter for the night.
We explained our situation, Americans living and working in Italy and why we had left our car at the airport. She didn't understand why we would help her but she admired and trusted us just because we were Americans. More than anything else, she wanted to go to America. The land where people have choices and can become anything they want to be, regardless of sex or religion or social status. She wants, more than she can say, to experience the land of opportunity. Someday, she will work there. She is a doctor in Egypt and is now in her residency. She knows that when she is done she will study to get her license in American and find a hospital who will accept her. Her family wants her to marry, but she has turned away two husbands because they refuse the idea of living in America and that is her dream. She will wait and hope that the right man will come along.
Having followed the recent news of the revolution in Egypt I felt as if I were able to relate to this woman in a way that I would not been able to only two weeks ago. I was able to see the experiences she had recently lived through. I admired her and felt an immediate connection. Something I might have missed had I not had this recent inexplicable interest in the events of her country.
The return trip to the airport was quick and we were soon back at our car. We took her to the front of the terminal and I walked in with her to make sure she would be allowed to stay once the doors were locked at midnight. She would be safe there for the night and tomorrow she would be able to resume her journey to the home of her friends in Paris.
As we said our goodbyes and exchanged contact information, promising to keep in touch, she again came to tears. She said to me that there were no words she knew that would express her gratitude for our help. Her greatest fear was that she would be left alone on the street of a foreign country. In Muslim countries, women are cherished and protected. On her streets, she never worried about being raped or mugged but knew that this occurred in other places. If she were to lose her virginity, it would destroy her life. Everything she had worked for would be worthless. The sacrifices her family had made would be for nothing. She promised that her mother would call me to thank us for our generosity and that Allah would bless us.
We have an open invitation to visit Egypt (maybe after the dust of the revolution settles), where we would stay with her family and she would be our personal tour guide. When I said goodbye my heart was full of emotions that I can't explain. I may never see this woman again or we may keep in touch and become lifelong friends. All I can say is that I am really glad we missed our boat.
LeAnn
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J56oGIznUOQ

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Farewell, Leo


We've a bit of sad news to report today. Our handsome mackeral tabby boy Leo, the feline patriarch of our household, passed away peacefully Sunday night in his warm bed and in the company of his family.

Over the past few months, we could see that his old age (we believe he was 16 years old) was slowly catching up to him, although he never allowed that to prevent him from being the same wonderful and loving companion that he'd always been, both to us and to his Havana Brown housemates. All our HB kittens appreciated having "Uncle Leo" to mentor them, play with them, and pile on top of / next to for naps.

Back in the 1990's, when LeAnn and I first started working together at IBM in Boulder, I would regularly overhear LeAnn telling our co-worker Liz stories about her newly-adopted Boulder Shelter cat that always seemed to start with, "guess what Leo did last night...!" Leo was always getting into mischief as a youngster, whether it was tipping over newly-watered houseplant pots so the wet dirt spilled all over the beige carpet, jumping up onto the dresser top and one by one pushing coins across the top with his paw to the edge of the dresser and watching them fall to the floor ("testing gravity", we called it), or his favorite 3am trick, jumping up and swatting LeAnn's siamese Samantha as she slept in LeAnn's arm then running away as Sammy shrieked loudly! When LeAnn and I started dating, Leo would "attack" my overhanging feet from the end of her bed.

LeAnn tried to use "time out's" to encourage better behavior in the cat. She would announce "time out, Leo!" as she scooped him up in her arms and carried him into the powder room and shut the door. After about 10 minutes, she'd open the door and ask him, "So, are you ready to behave now?". Leo would simply look up at her, swishing his tail defiantly, and say "Myaaah!" as he slowly strolled out of the bathroom, already thinking up his next mischievous plan.

As Leo grew older, he mellowed out and didn't get into a lot of mischief. Oh, he'd still test gravity occasionally, but he became very affectionate and was a great "bed buddy", coming to see us at bedtime for pets and snuggling, then settling down for the night between my legs. I got into the habit, when I wanted to turn to sleep in another position, of first pulling my legs upward, turning, then extending my legs back out, so that I wouldn't disturb him as he slept. In the morning, Leo was always up by our heads, purring "Good Morning" to us, walking across the pillows, cleaning our foreheads and faces with his rough tongue, and giving us affectionate forehead-butts (just like hockey players after a game - I think they got the idea from cats!).

When we lived in Colorado, Leo especially enjoyed helping LeAnn with gardening, rolling around in the dirt among the herb plants and chasing bugs. Even after we moved to Italy, he loved to lounge on the outdoor terrace in the sunshine, and to hear the sounds and smell the smells of our neighborhood here in Mestrino. If there was a sunny patch on the floor or carpet, that's where you'd find him, warming his furry tummy. Calling to him with a cheerful "Leeeoo Kitty!" would be met with his squinty contented cat eyes and his best 'hello' yawn.

When LeAnn's Grandma Margie lived with us in Colorado for the last year of her life, Leo took to her and he became 'Grandma's Kitty', even sleeping guard on her bed after she had left us. Now it appears that Leo has gone to be with Grandma Margie, and I can't think of a more faithful companion to have.

We miss you, handsome boy. Thanks for all the wonderful memories.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

your curbside garbage disposal: the umido bucket!

Since moving to Mestrino, LeAnn and I have been learning to live like a local, and one of the strange quirks about living here is the use of the umido (OOH-mee-doh) bucket.

In the USA, many people use garbage disposals to put food waste down into their plumbing system via the use of water and electricity, which eventually causes them to pay a plumber to come unclog their pipes, OR causes them to hack and slash at their drain pipes after first putting several bottles of Liquid Plum'r into them, thus causing eye irritation, mental irritation, and interesting clothing color schemes to appear after a time. Sort of like dyeing Easter Eggs while still under the hen.

In Italia, however, there is a small squarish green bucket for getting rid of your kitchen waste that is emptied from curbside on certain days of the week (here in zona 'B' of Mestrino it's Wednesday and Saturday, and in warmer months they add Monday) (that's "mercoledi' ", "sabato", and "lunedi' " for those of you playing along at home in Italian!) Our kitchen sink is apparently designed for such a setup, too, as it features a removable plastic lid over a plastic chute under which is suspended a small plastic trash can. If you ever find yourself in a kitchen fixtures store and see a sink with such a lid / chute arrangement, now you'll know what it is, and will be able to impress your friends with an explanation (as they wonder aloud how you could be so unnaturally interested in kitchen sinks, and then you'll have to come back with a "well it was (whomever's) idea to look at sinks, I didn't even want to!" (unless it WAS your idea, then you're pretty much stuck))! (just don't say it was my fault for putting the information in your head via this blog. That's just weak.)

So, we use the umido bucket to dispose of kitchen waste, instead of tormenting our plumbing system with it, or disposing of it via the traditional trash can. Things like leftovers that became fridge science projects, stale bread, coffee grounds that didn't make it to the garden, moldy cheese bits, etc etc. Sometimes it takes a bit more vigilance to keep the kitchen from smelling bad, but it's a small price to pay to keep the landfills less crowded - er, to keep us from looking like clueless foreigners!

I don't exactly know where all this stuff goes. There's an Aqua Teen Hunger Force episode (Season 2 episode 7, "Super Sir Loin" - ain't Google searches great!) where Meatwad donates food to a charitable cause, but in our case I don't think the contents of our umido bucket goes to the shorties...

Anyway, one thing you have to make sure of is not to use an opaque plastic bag for your umido goodies, otherwise you may find your plastic bag out of the bucket and out on the sidewalk naked on its own next to it. Yuck! At least we don't have squirrels...

We actually had our Italian language instructor tell us that she thought that the practice is unsanitary, and that they don't do it where she's from. (Which btw, is from Naples! So the easy retort would have been to say, "no, you just pile all your trash on the sidewalk together!!!" But it was our second day of class and I didn't want to get on her 'bad list', so I kept my mouth shut.)

So that's the story of the umido bucket!

I'd post pics, but you might be eating something as you read this.

More next time!